This article is the result of training conducted just a few days ago. During the private session, this young woman asked me “How to avoid amorous assholes” at least six times. I thought it might be time to write an article to help you get over the disappointment and spot the good guys! The ones that are really worth getting attached to.
Yes, there are still men who are willing to commit to a stable relationship, and even tell you their feelings without being too possessive (because a possessive man is not sexy!).
Do you have the impression that all good men, and at the same time attractive ones, that is, the ones you like, are already in a relationship? Can you imagine being forced to choose between a don juan with multiple relationships (sometimes at the same time) or a shy man with a tender heart who allows himself to be dominated too easily? Do you think a happy medium doesn’t exist or isn’t for you?
And yet it is completely fake! You can find true love if you look in the right place!
So what to do? How to find a good man when you think about it
three quarters of men are assholes in love?
I have an answer for you, and it’s pretty simple… Stop always going the wrong way!
Avoid assholes by changing your habits!
Look into your romantic past, I’m sure you’ll be able to find common signs in men you’ve met who no longer like you. Were they all athletes? Did they have a “bad” side that made you dream? Or were you a mother, a savior, a guardian angel, because you had a man who didn’t know how to handle himself?
If you take a closer look, you’ll quickly realize that you’re repeating the same pattern over and over again and therefore need to stop the machine or you’ll keep calling your friends in tears “But why do I always run into assholes? Do you understand, after all I’ve done for him, rejected me like less than nothing! “…
Unfortunately, this situation created an even more serious problem, which I call “Connardism”! Let me explain.
This phenomenon is to focus only on the negative sides of men, to identify their smallest flaws and above all to give them much more importance than they should. You are really making a kind of transfer from the previous relationship to the new one, and thus from one of your ex-boyfriends to the new one. However, they are two very different people despite their “penis”! not, not all men are assholes.
In other words, you cannot open your eyes to see a good man (a limited gentleman) in front of a disrespectful man.
If you are sabotaging your relationships, it is simply because you are conditioned by fear. Above all, you don’t want to relive the same disappointments, but if you observe carefully, you will notice that in love, every fear always ends up not coming true because you indirectly cause the situation yourself.
It was about time I helped you see things more clearly. So I have chosen for you the 3 main characteristics of a real asshole. There are many more, but if you fixate on them, you should have a chance to avoid them evil men in love now !
Run away from men who like to seduce…unless you are a seductress!
Men who know how to handle women are extremely dangerous, and you will quickly realize this if you fall in love with one of them. They are often called narcissistic perverts or manipulators and getting out of a toxic relationship and out of their clutches is really complicated.
The reason is simple. We are in a society where the man has to make the first move and therefore has an important role in the seduction phase. So he naturally places himself below the woman because she has a choice whether to give in to the seduction or send him packing.
According to custom, men should not confront a woman who shows no interest, so if a man shows himself with excessive confidence, it is because he is necessarily used to seduction. It’s not very dramatic per se, as there’s simply a charmer or seducer with a good track record, but it’s still enough to alert your radar.
From the moment a man knows how to do it, I urge you to take precautions not to show yourself too quickly acquired because otherwise you risk suffering, and it is much less funny there.
It is worrying that often confident men are attracted to helpless little princesses. It’s up to you to show character, because now you’ve been warned.
Recognize a frivolous man: he lies and denies evidence!
The peculiarity of a malicious man in love is his ability to lie. If you are wondering how to recognize a frivolous man, you just need to know if he is lying correctly or not. If his directorial skills are comparable to those of the Oscar-winning actor, then take precautions!
Whether it’s small details or more important things, you know if you have to do it manipulator. The latter will really enjoy playing on their supremacy by hiding all kinds of truths from you, from the most banal to the most important.
In order to maintain control, he will be able to put you in the wrong position once you understand his trick. To achieve this, he uses a saying that I have renamed “Who shouts first wins”.
He does not hesitate to accuse you and stigmatize your lack of self-confidence, with tears in his eyes of course!
Of course, if you agree to question yourself and restore your full trust in him, he will not hesitate to start over, but he will always be more subtle and therefore he will be able to press where it hurts at every opportunity. Don’t give him that chance and thwart his plans by refusing to be persuaded.
He resents me, but he loves me!
If you see this third sign, it’s because you’re in front of a first class asshole! He knows perfectly how to use emotional levers to make you fall in love and to take advantage of your fragility.
This is what I call the programmed destabilization technique. asshole or a narcissistic perverted manipulator he knows how to play it to perfection thanks to compliments that no other man has ever given you (Yes, the asshole can be VERY nice when needed), and on the other hand, small reflections that will touch you directly and will have an impact on your lack of self-confidence.
Unfortunately, this attitude prevents you from making a decision and makes you doubt little by little. From that moment on, he has absolute control over the relationship because you are completely dependent on him.
So, if a man gives you a compliment or expresses his feelings and immediately afterwards uses it to undermine your self-worth, to show you how much he deserves better, it’s very easy to RUN at full speed before it’s too late! If you hesitate even for a moment and say to yourself, He is different from my exes “… You know that you will have no way out once you fall in love.
This article is written in a more or less light tone and with a bit of humor at the beginning, but unfortunately it is a reflection of the love life of many women and is by no means a caricature. Don’t be trapped by narcissistic perverts, assholes or manipulators anymore (call them what you want).
These men are harmful to you and you have the right to happiness in love and life.
There are some there wonderful men but you will have to learn to spot them, and my job is to help you so that you can make the right decisions now.
To all the loving assholes reading this article, we urge you to leave immediately and never return to alexandrecormont.com until you change your attitude…
Sincerely,
Alexandre Cormont,
Love Coach is an active member of the fight against indecisive men in love!
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