A few years ago you had a relationship that left its mark. Unfortunately for you, the love story ended in divorce. Despite all the time you’ve spent apart, you still have feelings for this person. On your part, you are sure, it was indeed the love of your life and therefore you want to reconnect with your ex.
Maybe you had stories in the meantime, but nothing comparable, you still have that relationship in the back of your mind. But water flowed under the bridge from your old idyll.
So you have an idea that has been brewing for a while, to reconnect with this person who meant so much to you!
But you are not in the usual framework because most people behave a few weeks after a breakup or even a few months after it at the most.
However, there is a way to find out if you can reconnect with your ex after a long break, and that requires taking the first action: reconnecting. The main question is therefore to know how to proceed for this Sending sms or adding on Facebook does not guarantee the success of your conquest. Today there are many couples who find love again with their ex. You could be one of them. But only under certain conditions…
Is it a good or bad idea to text your ex after 1 year?
This is a situation I often encounter in training. Not only did you break up a long time ago, but above all, the loss of contact is important. Sometimes almost a year has passed since the exchange, sometimes more. For some reason you stopped talking to each other, but today the lack is important.
It’s complicated to find the right formula for getting back in touch with your ex after a few months or a few years. The problem is that you still see him/her as an ex. However, the message you want to write should not emphasize this situation.
It is time to turn the page, to start from scratch and therefore do not mention the past in your message. Getting back to your ex after a long break is not negative if you do it first to exchange, not to regret and not to recreate the same relationship as before.
If you have changed and you want to know if your ex is open to exchanges then you can try your luck but not to mention the feelings from the past. Talk about yourself, your new life, your projects, your development.
Become aware of their feelings
You can continue to have more or less long relationships, but you are not able to give yourself 100% in them. You would like to let go and throw yourself into the story. But something is blocking you, that is, you are haunted by an image, that of your ex.
That person you were terribly in love with occupies your thoughts and you tell yourself that he/she is the one you need. It’s perfectly normal to still have feelings if your story has given you feelings that no one else has been able to make you experience.
When you become aware of this phenomenon, you inevitably want to find him/her to find out if the place he/she occupies in your heart is reciprocated and if this can turn into the beginning of a re-conquest.
You need to see more clearly. Keeping emotions or feelings inside is not a real option for finding solutions, whether you decide to move on or not. It’s time for you to reconnect with this ex so that you have a better idea of how he/she sees things and can determine the actions to be taken based on that. You don’t have to walk blinded by love but think about what will really fill you with happiness.
Tips for getting back in touch with your ex after a long breakup
Obviously there is a trick that immediately comes to mind to make it work of reconnecting with an ex after a long break and it consists simply of using social networks. You need to remember your ex’s first and last name. We’re not talking about a one-night stand, a vacation adventure, but about someone who marked you for a while. You wouldn’t be reading these lines and taking my advice if it was just a one-night stand. Keep in mind that the latter could only last a few months, but the passion must have been stronger than anything else. The happiest couples are not always the ones that last the longest.
If you want to reconnect with him/her, it really wasn’t a trivial matter in your eyes. After his profile is displayed, send him a friendly message that will remind him of an anecdote, for example, to immediately start a conversation about a topic that will lighten the atmosphere. Above all, don’t make the mistake of starting with a big declaration of love expressing your regrets.
For to find lost love and getting back into a couple with him or her, it will be crucial to remember the good times you spent in the past, but without falling into the trap of nostalgia. You will be able to joke, tease your ex, but in a cute way. The goal is simply to create a calm atmosphere that will be suitable for seduction. Plus, you have one heck of an asset up your sleeve, since you know him/her, you already know what topics he/she might like.
Should you use your romantic past to win your ex back?
Let’s be clear, a romantic past, however positive it may be, is not enough to seduce your ex again!
Don’t forget that the breakup happened after all and your ex may not have gotten over it yet. You should not deal with negative points when you resume contact with your ex, however you will need to make clarifications and explanations if you want to start again on a solid basis, but it is useless to plan this conversation from the beginning. on the contrary even because it would risk breaking the magic of reunion. Reconnecting with your ex is an art that needs to be mastered!
Divorce never happens by bad luck, there are reasons that led your ex to this decision and it should not be ignored. Even after years of breaking up, anger can linger between you and the person you want back.
Despite the memories, your eventual story must not be built on your past, on the contrary, you must show that you want to move forward. Show your ex that you are not the same person anymore, if they are specter of breakup resurfaces, you will be able to prove to your ex that you have changed.
You have to be someone else. After so much time, your image will necessarily be different from the one you had before, and your character as well as your aspirations will evolve. It’s not about him depriving you, not behaving the way you’re used to, but simply letting your ex know that the past is the past and that she needs to stay where she is, but that your story can rise from its ashes.
Sincerely
Your trainer for reconnect with your ex after a long break
Alexandre Cormont
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